tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post116139443293595782..comments2023-11-02T07:53:23.585-04:00Comments on We Can Relate: Get this on record: I was wrongUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-1161623892037150382006-10-23T13:18:00.000-04:002006-10-23T13:18:00.000-04:00A "happy ending" for whom? Surely not your husban...A "happy ending" for whom? Surely not your husband. <BR/><BR/>If I was your husband you would've had a frozen dinner alone, on the sofa, which happens to be where you would have slept that night.<BR/><BR/>Lucky you didn't marry a guy with a spine!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-1161462787023886722006-10-21T16:33:00.000-04:002006-10-21T16:33:00.000-04:00alsiha, after reading your blogs, i think you need...alsiha, after reading your blogs, i think you need therapyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-1161453939848827072006-10-21T14:05:00.000-04:002006-10-21T14:05:00.000-04:00It is important to trust your partner even when th...It is important to trust your partner even when they are expressing anger or even moments of silence before discussing an emotionally charged incident. What unfortunately happens I'm afraid all too often is the situation results in irreparable damage to the relationship or at least will require work and cooperation to repair the relationship.<BR/><BR/>You guys are fortunate to be able to work this out. It's no fun being the one hit with all the blame and losing the relationship as well.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-1161440322653134952006-10-21T10:18:00.000-04:002006-10-21T10:18:00.000-04:00Men like me have a good quality (in my opinion) th...Men like me have a good quality (in my opinion) that women actually hate. It's this: When I get really mad or upset, I SHUT UP! Pretty much clam up totally. I can actually remember telling my wife, 'Just let me be quiet, you don't want to hear what I would say!' Once I cool down, and can get my thoughts into order, I am ready to talk about it. Many women, though, want to TALK TALK TALK at the point of anger. It's a dangerous moment. I respect your ability to admit what you did is wrong, and I feel bad for your husband. But just for that. I think you sound like a great couple -- you both found a prize!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-1161432859717936682006-10-21T08:14:00.000-04:002006-10-21T08:14:00.000-04:00Yea: "I dropped my keys," but "It's YOUR fault!"M...Yea: "I dropped my keys," but "It's YOUR fault!"<BR/><BR/>Men are idiots. Men never do anything right. And even when a man tries to do something nice, it somehow blows up in his face.<BR/><BR/>There's an incentive to try establishing a relationship with a woman....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-1161429871397486812006-10-21T07:24:00.000-04:002006-10-21T07:24:00.000-04:00Good for you for admitting when you are wrong. As ...Good for you for admitting when you are wrong. As for your initial reaction, trust me - you are not alone here. I cannot tell you how many women I've met who go on and on about how "independent" they are and blah, blah, blah. Then when something goes wrong or their life does not quite become the fairy tale they imagined - they find a way to blame a man for not taking care of them. Here's a hint ladies: if you feel the need to constantly tell people that you are independent then you probably aren't. The motto of today's woman is "I want it all, and I want it all at once, and I want it right now, and if I don't get it then it's someone else's fault." It's the spoiled little daddy's girl now has a degree and is in the working world and realizing things were a lot better when everything was given to me - syndrome.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com