tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post1732684042479653743..comments2023-11-02T07:53:23.585-04:00Comments on We Can Relate: Speaking the language of loveUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-13389363028856999162008-12-08T14:56:00.000-05:002008-12-08T14:56:00.000-05:00I'm an "e" with "d" a close second. My experience ...I'm an "e" with "d" a close second. My experience with family and friends is that actions speak louder than words. For "e," I get stressed about things to do. If you can relieve that stress, I'm grateful.<BR/><BR/>The key to "d" is that the gift is unexpected and thoughtful. Cost has nothing to do with it. (you can bring me flowers from your garden and that's thoughtful) This means the person went out of their way to take time to get me something to make me feel good, and that the thoughtfulness means they know me well and are attentive to my likes/dislikes (ie. they are not self-centered).<BR/><BR/>Also, I can know you care about me without needing the "connection" time that others crave. Maybe that's because I tend to be a bit introverted and a tad loner-ish.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com