tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post1770989576642844003..comments2023-11-02T07:53:23.585-04:00Comments on We Can Relate: He 'forgot' he's marriedUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-8942847779570448662007-12-03T18:52:00.000-05:002007-12-03T18:52:00.000-05:00I am married and have several platonic female frie...I am married and have several platonic female friends, some my wife knows and some she doesn't..I am considered a fairly handsome guy but I make it a point not to befriend a female that I am physically attracted to. It makes all the differenceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-63826729355328445512007-11-23T10:42:00.000-05:002007-11-23T10:42:00.000-05:00Amen to anonymous 11/17, 1:56 pm. People say that...Amen to anonymous 11/17, 1:56 pm. People say that the wives should not go after the "other women," only their cheating husbands. I disagree. Although this woman didn't know he was married, the wife didn't know this, and coming from her standpoint, she had a right to say something to the woman who she thought was about to get involved with her man. And of course, I hope she dealt with her husband as well. It takes two to tango. If my husband cheated on me, I would be mad at both of them, if the woman already knew about me. Neither of them acted alone, but together...he violated our marriage vows, and the woman was so trifling and disrespectful she didn't respect our marriage by sleeping with him. OK?<BR/><BR/>And for Anon. 11/17, 2:57 pm, I'd love to hear your story about the Observer staffer who did you wrong...I'm sorry this happened to you, but this blog needs to talk about women who do men wrong for a change.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-16800641353371177362007-11-23T00:40:00.000-05:002007-11-23T00:40:00.000-05:00i remember reading somewhere to avoid the appearan...i remember reading somewhere to avoid the appearance of evil.<BR/><BR/>a lot of studies have shown that a man/woman cant be best friend and not one of them liking each other.<BR/><BR/>i had a friend (female) who was my best friend for over 5yrs. I never knew she liked me until the end. <BR/><BR/>I stopped wearing a ring about 3weeks ago.....but that's because I gained some weight...and the ring was starting to choke my finger!<BR/><BR/>A lot of 'innocent relationships' always turn out sour. I agree with the other posters that not all men are dogs...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-34076587598104149212007-11-19T09:25:00.000-05:002007-11-19T09:25:00.000-05:00OK, this guy is a jerk. We are not all that way. ...OK, this guy is a jerk. We are not all that way. I don't wear a ring an my wife knows it. I don't like wearing rings. I've lost two and will not buy another one unless my wife asks me to. For the record the first fell off my finger while I had my arm out the window driving down the road and the second fell off while playing football with family at my Grandmother's house. As for emotional adultery just because I am good friends with a girl I work with does not mean I am commiting emotional adultery on my wife. We sometimes eat lunch together, just the two of us. It doesn't mean anything! My wife knows I adore her and would never do anything to hurt her.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-17166817645434297972007-11-17T14:57:00.000-05:002007-11-17T14:57:00.000-05:00So I've been reading this blog for a while now, an...So I've been reading this blog for a while now, and I find it funny how often you make the men out to be bad people. Now, in this case the man was the bad person. But when are you going to post a blog about a woman who cheats on her man? They do it too. In fact, I used to date one of your coworkers and she cheated on me. I'd be happy to share my story with you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-62560728969225326562007-11-17T13:56:00.000-05:002007-11-17T13:56:00.000-05:00Deirdre, why are you pissed at the wife for gettin...Deirdre, why are you pissed at the wife for getting angry at the "other woman"? She has every right to feel upset at both people (and you don't know what the wife has said to the husband... so don't assume she lets him skate).<BR/><BR/>Jeez, there are some women who willing stay with married men. And they DO deserve the wrath of a wife b/c they are selfishly and knowingly hurting another woman's relationship because they focus on "me me me."<BR/><BR/>Grow up and get some relationship experience. (and I'm not talking about dating) Some men are dogs. But plenty of women are **tches, too. Your one-way support of single women in just about every situation you post about here, and making the guy out to be the bad guy, is short-sighted and immature.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-55366693105573586662007-11-17T13:34:00.000-05:002007-11-17T13:34:00.000-05:00Oh yeah... I am going to take a break from dating....Oh yeah... I am going to take a break from dating... Don't know how long it will last... but for my sanity I have sworn off dating for the near future....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-30384279307082077712007-11-17T13:32:00.000-05:002007-11-17T13:32:00.000-05:00As a response the anomymous that said I should sto...As a response the anomymous that said I should stop being the flava of the month... Its not like that with me. I am a single attractive professional woman and I have no problem meeting people- I do not party every weekend and I didn't meet this loser in a bar. He just happens to own one. Recently I have found that 9 out of 10 men that approach me are already in a relationship- They just arent honest about it. I say that when you meet someone, they shoudl be honest about their relationship status. At least give me the choice to accept the circumstances. I don't date married men or men with girlfriends so If he wouldve told me that he was married I would have never even given him my phone #.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-89613580232111116442007-11-17T10:06:00.000-05:002007-11-17T10:06:00.000-05:00anon 8:25...as a girl that gets hit on by married ...anon 8:25...as a girl that gets hit on by married men and is the victim of adultery - because friends connect emotionally and emotional adultery is the same as (and usually the gateway to) physical adultery. If you want to make friends - bring your wife out with you. I'd love to meet her. You might want to try showing your wife some respect - wear your ring. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-74652227738710929242007-11-17T08:25:00.000-05:002007-11-17T08:25:00.000-05:00why do you suggest that married people should wear...why do you suggest that married people should wear rings? is it illegal for someone who's married to try and make friends even after getting married and even if it is with someone of the opposite sex? 9 times out of 10 if a man tells a woman he's married it's a conversation killer (even if up to that point they have hit it off).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32667793.post-34551794409038469122007-11-16T22:19:00.000-05:002007-11-16T22:19:00.000-05:00Perhaps if you stayed out of the bar industry, you...Perhaps if you stayed out of the bar industry, you'll meet a high caliber person. I have found bar owners and that entire industry to be a total meat market. <BR/><BR/>Stop being the flavor of the month!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com