Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Men, would you rather play games or have sex?

If you've ever felt you had to compete with your man's Wii for attention, take this as ammunition: A recent study shows that one in three men would rather play video games than have sex with their partner. The study, reported in the U.K. newspaper The Sun, was conducted by the site PS3pricecompare.co.uk and surveyed 1,130 British men. (How surprising: A study sponsored by a video game site says men prefer video games.)

According to Genie James, executive director of the Natural Hormone Institute, hormonal imbalance and stress may be to blame. "It is very likely that these men are suffering from a hormone imbalance at a cellular level that causes them to lose interest in sex," says James.

For example, when testosterone levels begin to decline in a man's 30s and 40s, libido -- or sex drive -- is compromised. Symptoms include fatigue, lethargy and weight gain. "That is why many men come home, plop down on the sofa and pick up the remote or engage in video games. They just don’t feel up to doing much else," James says.

Don't think you're safe, twentysomethings. "Typically, young men in their teens and 20s are sexually rambunctious but -- in the last several decades -- young men living in industrialized nations like America have shown reduced sperm count and quantity of ejaculate. Both of these evidence an early decline in testosterone levels," she says. Scientists attribute this trend to the high levels of foreign hormones, called xenohormones, that are found in many foods, including meat and milk, as well as in common inhalants such as fumicides and pesticides.

So, what's a guy to do? You may not want to hear this, but the most important thing is to exercise. "Exercise naturally boosts lagging testosterone levels," says James. "Also, clean up your diet. Go organic when possible to decrease exposure to xenohormones. Give up the nachos and beer while sitting on the sofa. Remember that all those pounds packed around your middle are literally decreasing your 'manliness.' "

14 comments:

Anonymous said...

well it all depends, what game and is it with one of you two?

Anonymous said...

if it's with one of them, it doesn't matter the game. the game will win everytime.

Anonymous said...

I think you guys are overdue by about a week on this topic. Pretty much every radio station and entertainment blog covered this in detail a while ago....

Anonymous said...

What is this sex you speak of?

Anonymous said...

is there a 12 pack of PBR involved?

Anonymous said...

man thought you guys got the can... two posts in two weeks? both of which were pretty much cut and paste of something else already published... the observer hasnt gotten the hint yet ...

Anonymous said...

oh, they've definitely got "the can".

Anonymous said...

looks like the video game blogger covered this also... more reason for consolidation

Anonymous said...

why not both at the same time? why choose?

Deirdre McGruder said...

This reader e-mailed me:

I'm a 49-year old married man who wants to comment on your excellent article. I do NOT prefer video games to sex - I don't like video games at all, and my wife would tell you there seems to be little I prefer to sex. We eat mostly organic food. A few years ago I was exercising a lot and weighed about 15 fewer pounds than now. I was tested and both sperm count and quantity of ejaculate were very low. The advice from my doctor was:
1) exercise LESS, especially lay off the road bicycling
2) stop taking hot baths
3) take a male-optimized vitamin mix
I was retested 6 months later and my sperm count was off the chart.
I hope this can help someone else!

Anonymous said...

^
So the moral of your story is. 1. Dont steep your peeps in the tub. 2.Dont perform activities where something jabs your crabs for extended periods of time (stop exercising). 3. Take your vitamins. 4. One reader thought you wrote(copied) an excellent article....Truly insightful Dierdre.

Anonymous said...

I haven't done either in so long, I simply can't relate.

Anonymous said...

Sex. Hands down. Not even a contest. Video games can be fired up at anytime, but after 12 years of marriage and 2 young kids, we are rarely on the "same page" for sex.

Make hay when the sun shines, the video games can be played afterward.

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